The Luminous Women of India

Lessons from the fairer sex

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03 Nov '23
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I grew up in awe of the remarkable women around me - my mother, my grandmothers, my aunts. 

Strong, loving, and wise, they formed the foundation of our family. They amazed me in how effortlessly they seemed to balance their many responsibilities - as homemakers, professionals, community leaders, and caretakers. 

Their days were filled with activity, and yet they exuded a deep calm and poise. They taught me life's most profound lessons through their actions and presence.

As I ventured out into the world, I came across so many more inspirational women shaping India's fabric in diverse spheres - arts, business, activism, sports, science, and beyond. Their talents and determination lit fires in their communities and fields. They overcome societal limitations, yet retain their compassion. They walk the path of courage with grace.

The Everyday Superhero Women!

  • Aunt Leela found intellectual stimulation stifled within a traditional marriage. Rather than lament her confined domesticity, she poured passion into turning her garden into a magical wonderland that sparked creativity in neighborhood children. Her flowering oasis became a metaphor for cultivating beauty wherever life plants you. 
  • My cousin Neha was 23 when she lost her husband suddenly, leaving her a single mother. The tragedy could have broken her, but she found resilience and purpose in raising her daughter. While working, Priya also took night classes, refusing to lower her dreams. Today she runs a successful dance academy. Out of adversity, her leadership bloomed.
  • The neighborhood matriarch, Kusum aunty, supported her husband's career while anonymously serving at orphanages and nursing homes. Well into her 80s, her community spirit beams undimmed. She reminds me greatness often grows modestly through steady, humble actions in the shadows.  
  • Anita, forced into marriage at 15, endured abuse before finding the courage to walk out with nothing. She poured her hardship into helping other women escape violence and oppression. She funded her law studies by teaching basic literacy. Today she leads a non-profit empowering thousands of marginalized women through legal aid, counseling, and skills training.
  • Dr. Suneeta Singh persevered over cynics to become one of India’s first female cardiologists. She then innovated techniques making open-heart surgery accessible to the poor. Saved lives became her passion. Once excluded from the boys’ club of medicine, she now runs a nonprofit hospital serving tens of thousands of neglected patients.

Indian Women in History

History stands witness to extraordinary Indian women who overcame societal obstacles to unshackle minds and catalyze progress. 

  • 10th century philosopher Maitreyi elaborated on existential questions centuries before Descartes. 
  • 12th century poet Mahadeviyakka broke caste and gender barriers to voice spiritual quests. 
  • Rani Lakshmibai rallied rebels against the British - one of India's first women freedom fighters.  
  • Lata Mangeshkar sang for decades, and her sublime voice stirred the soul of India across generations. Through the ups and downs of history, her music remained a unifying force, giving voice to our collective joys, longings, and struggles. Art transcends boundaries. Lata didi demonstrated the power of pursuing one’s artistic passion against resistance.

Indian Women Continue Rising: The Indra Nooyi Story

When denied career opportunities, Indra Nooyi studied tirelessly and swept into Yale's male-dominated management program, rising to helm PepsiCo. Under her innovative leadership, the company thrived. She charts possibilities for aspiring women in business.

All Odds Stacked Against Women

Of course, most women remain confined within restrictive social systems and conditioning. Many resign dreams to dutifully embrace domesticity. Their silent sacrifice upholds families that form society's foundation. We cannot forget those continuing to nurture future generations while subduing personal aspirations. They deserve greater support.

But given opportunities, women flourish spectacularly. Stories abound of mothers supporting daughters' unconventional careers, husbands encouraging wives' endeavors, women integrating social leadership with family life. This new generation realizes meaningful integration of women's multi-faceted contributions benefits all.  

How To Empower Women

We must accelerate change by promoting women's education, economic participation and recognition in public spheres while redistributing domestic burdens. Shared childcare and household responsibilities will empower women to fully unfurl their diverse wings. 

When women can access schooling, gain financial independence, control family planning, and find acceptance as leaders, vast potential is unleashed for humanity's progress. 

For a society to flourish, it must honor the luminous feminine spirit that balances, uplifts and transforms human civilization.

There is no limit to what Indian women can achieve for their families, communities and the nation when not restrained by regressive conventions. 

If allowed to spread their wings, the abundant light, wisdom, and inspiration women hold can guide India towards a brighter, enlightened future.

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Written by Rishi Mohan

Transitioned from code to sentences, this ex-engineer now engineers emotions with words as a passionate writer

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